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Saturday, 27 September 2014

Netherlands (Amsterdam) - September 2014

这趟三天两夜的行程主要是参加公司年度的CRM & KTOC Booster Meeting,将近60名的会议参加者来自世界各地,而我还真是伤尽脑细胞尝试去记住每个人的名字和面孔。 

早上10.25am的登机时间,让我必须在天亮之前就开始了行程。到了机场,我惊讶的被告知我的机票没包括机舱寄放行李的服务,而我只被允许携带一个行李(手提袋竟也算一个!)当急之下我只好勉强的把三个手提包挤为一个(但我不明白为什么回程却没问题?)。更不幸的是飞机延迟了将近一个小时才起飞。 

抵达阿姆斯特丹Schiphol机场,那里设有通讯箱让顾客免费跟酒店联系安排接送。在酒店完成了登记手续以后,我就即刻前往餐厅享用午餐(当时已下午三点而我快饿得抽经了!)酒店餐厅的食物还不错,可是这餐Codfish Platter 竟让我等了整半个小时! 

这趟行程超开心能见到熟悉的脸孔 - 我的一位同事兼好友。那乘搭十三个小时飞机随他而来的一大包肉干,让我非常感动(还真怕我一个人在这里没餐好吃的呢…呵呵)。经过一番讨论,我们决定往市中心一趟。以往经过阿姆斯特丹都以转机为目的,没想到那么快有机会到访这个美丽的水上之都。由于酒店附近没什么景点,随性的我们就乘搭巴士前往市中心。虽然完全不熟悉这陌生的城市,然而随口讯问身边的搭客及随着人潮流动,我们成功到达目的地。在街上悠闲的走走逛逛,一边当全职游客般拍照及一边很废的闲聊。这晚也许是我来欧洲后说话最多的一天(当然不包括我平时常给的培训课程)。 

阿姆斯特丹是世上其中一个海拔最低的城市, 所以气候也格外风大寒冷。这自行车的王国,让我们很伤神的分辨到底哪个是车道,人行道,单车道或是电车轨道,因为稍微不留意还真会被撞着呢。欧洲的每个城市都有它自己的风格和特色,这也让我开始爱上了阿姆斯特丹。有个伴的旅途总比自己一个人的行程来得热闹精彩,毕竟单独行走和生活了那么久,说什么人生单独体验都还真是腻了。 

接近晚餐时间,没想到在那么遥远的国度,所面临的问题还是一致的,那就是天天都要伤脑筋的问“要吃什么”?重复在街上逛了几遍,我们最终决定光临一间马来西亚餐馆。餐厅的主人和太太来自新加坡及马来西亚,所以也对我们也特别友善招待。那可口的Curry Laksa及Pasembur,另外还副赠我们一盘免费的沙爹呢。

天色渐渐暗下来,我终于有机会见识了阿姆斯特丹著名的红灯区,橱窗里那天使的面孔和火辣的身材,让我无奈感叹为什么自己不是男儿身所以她们对我没兴趣…哈哈。情趣商品店满街都是,既然黄赌毒在荷兰都是合法的,只可惜我没机会尝试大麻(留着下一趟吧)。回到酒店已接近10.30pm,疲惫的我们各自回房休息准备心情参加第二天的会议。 

经过一个早上标准的商讨和简报,会议的其中一项活动,竟是让我们全体参加者以不同组合的方式去游览市中心。所以再一次,两架巴士的同事们一同来到市中心,步行将近三小时走遍大街小巷,看尽不同的景色。回到酒店休息了一会,就再度集合享用红酒佳肴。意外的惊喜是关于系统和流程的问答卷我竟是最高得分者(总算没浪费我研究每一分手稿的心思)。 

第二天的漫长会议终结了各项议题,大家都经由酒店的安排纷纷离开了。这几年习惯了徘徊于机场及火车站,数小时的等待已成了平常事。刚抵达London Gatwick Airport,那恐怖的人潮依旧像rush hour 般拥挤,一半也因为较早发生的交通事故(有人被火车撞到)导致火车的列表都混乱了。我还得靠经验和常识来辨别回家的方向,因为手机上的程式资料没来得及跟上突发的变化。一个人夜晚背着包包拖着行李箱孤独的站在火车站旁,别人还真会以为我离家出走呢。 

回到家已将近十一点,虽然是趟蛮累的行程但依然很开心。在荷兰肯定不忘买些当地名产的起司,可悲的是。。。我又得努力减肥啦!另外,我竟在三天内一个人解决了那一大包的肉干。。。我。完。蛋。了。

Sunday, 21 September 2014

英国之 - 烹饪日记

刚来到时连碗都没有,吃个泡面还得用杯子来盛呢!
多数讲究方便的三餐。

Weird combination? (Pancake + Strawberry + Omelette)
我蛮喜欢的Corned-beef Muffin。
亲切屋主亲手弄的水饺~感动
在这寒冷的气候,特别想喝些热汤。(之前在马来西亚偶尔还会煮些药材面线或煲些药材补汤,然而在这里连药材都难寻啊。一包红枣大约价值20英镑叻!)
难得鸡蛋煎得那么完美啊 (不过面超辣的)
不辣的版本
黑胡椒炒蘑菇
第一次尝试中式鸡肉炒青豆。
又饿又冷时,超想吃羊扒呢!

* 今年的回国计划列表可长得很呢,似乎都离不开吃…哈哈(所谓的离开亚洲后遗症吧)不过回来后又得重新开始减肥计划了 T__T

Wednesday, 17 September 2014

公转.自转


我的世界围绕着你的世界打转,你的世界离开了馗道却仍在自转,而我的世界已停顿在那一秒被凝固的空间。

自己的灵魂,早在某年某月里,被困在镜中镜的碎片中,只因那一面镜子,曾映照出我曾经的未来。  

Saturday, 13 September 2014

寻之.空 5

I whispered my wishes to the heaven, but the firmament is shut. 
I held my head up to the sky, but only witness the unbounded universe. 
I threw my hands up to the air, but catches only emptiness. 
I stamped my feet hard to the ground, but it leaves no trails. 
I yelled my heart out to the mountains, but only hearing echoes from the distance. 
I drowned myself into deep sea, but the wave is pushing me to the shore. 
I journeyed towards the source of light, but the path only led to profound darkness. 
I held my spirit up high, but only being pulled down into a greater depth.

Sunday, 31 August 2014

幸福及喜之2014

Another round of congratulation to the following events:

Newlywed Couples: 
Mr. AYTC and Ms. KCYH on 17th February 2014 
Mr. TTH and Ms. CKSK on 9th March 2014
Mr. PS and Ms. CN on 10th June 2014
Mr. ATYH and Ms. MCH on 31st August 2014
Mr. CWL and Ms. LWF on 22nd November 2014
Mr. BT and Ms. LLS on 29th November 2014
Mr. HWSH and Ms. WMY on 21st December 2014 

New Born: 
Jayden on 27th October 2013 
Isaac on 16th January 2014
Jonathan on 21st January 2014
Xin Yao on 10th October 2014

Friday, 29 August 2014

人生路只会越走越寂寞



朋友很多,然而知己却很少。当你经历多了,看得更透彻时,你会慢慢发觉人与人之间的距离和代沟都变得越来越深。当你迈步跨前的同时,却也拉远了与很多人的距离。踏入社会,你往往会发觉志不同,道不合的真谛。所谓的朋友,也都会越来越现实及惯于相互利用及谋取利益。原本简单的,变复杂了。 原本熟悉的,变陌生了。

人活着,是经验的累积,也是压力的累积。距离,让你退下一步,去看见自己身边那边缘隐藏着的破裂点。放弃一幅不再完美的画,也是人生必经之路。人生,有什么是永恒的呢?我想唯有永恒才是永恒的吧。

忘记开的花,唯有等待下一个季节去弥补错失的机缘。然而那一片土地,也许已为另一个次元耕耘着血染的玫瑰。

Sunday, 17 August 2014

Stressful Week 33 - 2014

Due to the increased training requests from the different offices around UK, I had therefore a tiring full week outing traveling around England [Chertsey - Birmingham (180km) - Warrington (150km) - Keighley (95km) - Chertsey (355km)]. 

10th August 2014 (Sunday) 
After having a tough time looking for rooms in the past weeks, I finally found this new dwellling place and with the kind help from the new house owner I managed to move 3 of my suitcases and 2 bag packs full of my stuffs to this newly rented room. It was a rainy summer and fortunately the downpours only started after I have finished moving and here goes another different life and environment for me to fit myself into. 

11th August 2014 (Monday)
Chertsey - Birmingham
Waking up at 5.20am preparing for the trip to Birmingham, I only get to read the text message sent by my colleague informing a 30 minutes delay after arriving at the front door of the office at 6.40am and realizing that the main entrance wasn’t open before 7.00am. Once again I was back in Ramada Encore for another full day’s monthly team meeting. This week was completely stressful that I even forgotten to book my hotel room for this first night, but fortunately there was still a room available at £72.00. 

I wasn’t quite satisfy with the service this time as it took me long for the check-in at the front desk and when I notice that the room was without the internet cable, I approaches the front desk in person but they did not send the cable to my room as promised. Nonetheless, the dinner was great having the Grill Seabream as I dare not order the Thai Rice with Curry anymore subsequent to my experience 3 months ago whereby the curry doesn't taste spicy at all. 

12th August 2014 (Tuesday) 
Birmingham New Street - Manchester Piccadilly - Glazebrook 
After completing a 3.5 hours training session in the Birmingham office, I arrived at the Birmingham New Street Rail Station around 2.00pm with the kind offer for a free-ride by the key account manager. Grabbing a fast lunch (Lamb & Mint Puff) in one of the fast food outlet, I continued my 2 hours journey to Warrington. 

This town which I am going to stay was so small and rural that it was even unknown to the ticketing counter. The train wasn’t even announcing the location at each station as they normally should thus I needed to ask around and rely on my GPS to determine which station and when I should alight. I even waited blindly for more than 30 minutes at the Manchester Piccadilly station due to the inaccurate platform information on the website. 

The Rhinewood Country House Hotel was warm and comfortable where you can really feel the simple and serene lifestyle of countryside. The dinner was superb and I get to taste the England famous Gammon Steak served with variety of delicious steam vegetables (I like the grill mushroom most!). My night continues with the checking and replying of emails until 10.00pm before I am able to take a shower as my inbox was being attacked ferociously by the incomings of queries, notifications and tasks. 

 

13th August 2014 (Wednesday) 
Glazebrook - Birchwood - Manchester Oxford Road - Leeds - Keighley 
Another 4 hours training and discussion session held in the Warrington office during the day, I finally get to enjoy my lunch having the Tortilla Wraps sitting alone on a bench outside the supermarket enjoying the cool breeze, and I departed from the office around 3.30pm to start my 2.5 hours journey to Keighley. 

The Travelodge Hotel was 10 minutes walking distance away from the rail station and after checking-in, I am even too tired to get myself a proper dinner before I took a shower and rush on my date with my dearest bed. Finally, this is the only night that I could fully relax in the same hotel for the next day and need not move around hastily. 

14th August 2014 (Thursday) 
From the Google map view, the office was just a few steps away from the hotel. However there was no proper entrance at the back of the road thus I have to take the extra 1.5km walk just to arrive at the front door. Squeezing 3 short training sessions into one day free-up my Friday for clearing some on hand tasks and to travel back to Chertsey slightly earlier than the original schedule. 

 

15th August 2014 (Friday) 
Keighley - Leeds - London Kings Cross - London St Pancras International - Vauxhall - Chertsey 
A 5 hours train ride costing at £107.00 is a long journey for me to get back to Chertsey. With a bag full of the week’s necessities, a laptop case and a handbag, I was almost drained from every drop of my energy both mentally and physically. 

16th August 2014 (Saturday) 
Chertsey - Weybridge - Woking 
Since I have now moved to a rather permanent place, I have thus decided to go to the nearby town to get myself some of the basic stuffs for a better comfort of living. As it was raining quite often recently, I would now need to get myself a pair of waterproof boots to suit the ever changing weather. I have actually survived my first few months only with a pair of sport shoe even though it looks somehow weird together with a full set of formal dressing in the office...lol. 

 

Few of the items already cost me around £200+ and with some additional RM400+ expenses plus the 1 month rental deposit in addition to the advance expenses for the whole week's trip at £500+, I would definitely need to go for a modest and not luxury lifestyle for now.

Sunday, 10 August 2014

寻之.空 4

这个世界也许很大,我却在冥冥中遇见了你。这个圈子也许很小,然而我们却在不知不觉中走失了。无论是友情或是爱情,都有可能沦落为人生的一部插曲。 

如果有缘,错过了还会重来。 
如果无缘,相遇了也会离开。 

一辈子也许只在一念之间, 然而这一念之间却参杂了太多的复杂情绪和因素。 有些路,是注定要背负着伤痕继续走。

曾经的我不小心把最好的自己给用完了,而现在的我就只剩一幅躯壳在不停的运作。